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            <name>Rabbi Marc S. Sack</name>
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        <published>2009-09-28T21:00:00Z</published>
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                <h4 align="center" style="text-align: center">YOM KIPPUR</h4><br />
<h4 align="center" style="text-align: center">5770</h4><br />
<p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">In Jerusalem, on the eve of the last day of Pesach, when Shirat Hayam,
the Song of the Sea is sung in the synagogue, a group of Satmar Chasidim gathers for a special ritual. They stream into
their synagogue, which has been emptied of all seats. The ceremony begins with a soft singing of <em>Shirat Hayam.
</em>And then a space parts open in this packed hall, and the rebbe starts dancing through the crowd. As the rebbe
dances, and the path continues to open through the undulating crowd, the singing gets louder and louder. This singing
and dancing goes on for hours as they re-enact the splitting of the sea:<span>&#160; </span>the dancing Chasidim are the
waters making way for the rebbe who is the Jewish people. </font></p><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">But “re-enactment” is not the right word. The ceremony
is really a re-living, a re-experiencing in the here-and-now, of the Exodus. For all intents and purposes, these
Chasidim are leaving Egypt! <span>&#160;</span>They are experiencing in the present what happened thousands of years
ago…and they do that every year!<span>&#160; </span><span>&#160;</span></font></font></font></p><br />
<p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">While we might not do it as passionately, we also re-experience the
great events of our history. </font></p><br />
<ul type="disc" style="margin-top: 0in"><br />
<li><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">At our s’darim, we eat the foods of Egypt, recline on our chairs and
celebrate that we too have just been liberated from Egypt. </font></li><br />
<li><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">On Sukkoth, we live in make-shift huts as we make our trek through the
desert. </font></li><br />
</ul><br />
<p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">This is what our holiday ritual does for us:<span>&#160; </span>it
brings us to re-live the great events of our people so that there is no past-and-present, and there is no
“us-and-them” – as if to say this happened to them but not to us – it is all us, and it is all now!<span>&#160;
</span><strong><u>We</u></strong> left Egypt; <strong><u>We</u></strong> received Torah at Sinai;
<strong><u>We</u></strong> wandered through the desert. </font></p><br />
<p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">Nor is all this re-living happy. We have Tisha B’Av, the
9<sup>th</sup> day of Av, when we sit on the floor, wear the clothing of mourning, fast, don’t shave, and chant the
book of Lamentations in a wailing sound - to re-experience the destruction of the temple. </font></p><br />
<p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">But this is not the only Jewish model of memory and commemoration. There
are more ways to commemorate than by re-experiencing of the original event. </font></p><br />
<ul type="disc" style="margin-top: 0in"><br />
<li><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">The Torah reading for Yom Kippur says three times that the practices of
the day shall be “a law for us for all time,” “chuqat olam” in Hebrew. But that is not what we do.
<span>&#160;</span>We no longer sacrifice animals, nor do we want to. We no longer believe in pronouncing our sins over
the head of a goat; nor do we want to. And, with all due deference to the kohanim in the congregation, we no longer
believe that anyone can take away our sins for us – nor do we want to. </font></li><br />
</ul><br />
<p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">Another model of Jewish memory is a process where the essence of the
idea is preserved and all the external forms change. </font></p><br />
<ul type="disc" style="margin-top: 0in"><br />
<li><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">I was sitting with Moshe at the AIPAC conference last spring getting
ready to hear Shimon Peres speak. On the screens all across the front of the room flashed pictures of past leaders of
Israel:<span>&#160; </span>there was Chaim Weitzman and President Truman; David Ben Gurion with Presidents Eisenhower
and Kennedy; Golda Meir with President Nixon; Yitzchak Rabin with President Clinton and Binyamin Netanyahu with
President Obama. </font></li><br />
</ul><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">Looking at this impressive array, Moshe leaned over to me
and, speaking about President Peres, said, “He’s the last of that great generation.”<span>&#160;
</span></font></font></font></p><br />
<p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">Moshe was right:<span>&#160; </span>Shimon Peres is the last of the
generation of <em>chalutzim</em>, the pioneers who built the state. As I listened to Peres speak, I sat there wondering,
“What do we owe this generation of giants?”<span>&#160; </span>How do we keep their work alive?</font></p><br />
<ul type="disc" style="margin-top: 0in"><br />
<li><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">Must we do things exactly as they did?<span>&#160;
</span></font></font></font></li><br />
<li><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">Should Israelis go to Independence Hall in Tel Aviv every year and
declare the State, broadcasting that declaration over the radio?</font> </li><br />
</ul><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">Israel does <strong><u>none</u></strong> of those things.
Nor do Israelis dance in the streets of K<em>ikar Tziyon </em>in Jerusalem. </font></font></font></p><br />
<ul type="disc" style="margin-top: 0in"><br />
<li><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial"><u>We have our handful of sacred moments:<span>&#160;
</span>redemption, revelation, wandering and destruction – these we re-create; all the rest we adapt in order to keep
them alive</u>. </font></font></font></li><br />
</ul><br />
<p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">Rabbi Art Green, one of the leading American Jewish thinkers, said this:
</font></p><br />
<ul type="disc" style="margin-top: 0in"><br />
<li><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">“If I were to give my kid exactly the same
<em>Yiddishkeit</em> that my grandfather had in his shtetl in Lithuania, I’d be doing completely the wrong thing. Some
people think what you have to do is just keep it exactly as it was, without changing it, and pass it down. I call it
Judaism in formaldehyde. There won’t be anything alive in there.”<span>&#160; </span></font></font></font></li><br
/>
</ul><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">I was raised with a healthy dose of Jewish guilt. In
deference to my mother, that guilt did not come from her. It came from my grandfather who regularly told us what it was
like coming to this country and getting established here. And he always ended his lectures with the words, “You kids
don’t know how lucky you have it.”<span>&#160; </span></font></font></font></p><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">I struggle with the issue of what we owe to those who came
before us:<span>&#160; </span>what do we owe to the <em>chalutzim</em> who built the State of Israel; what do we owe
those who died, and those who survived, the Shoah; what do we owe our personal ancestors whose lives were much more
difficult than ours, and on whose shoulders all of us stand?<span>&#160; </span>How do we keep their struggling, their
sacrifice, their legacy alive?<span>&#160; </span></font></font></font></p><br />
<p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">There is a well-known Midrash on the opening words of the Amidah –
Eloheinu veilohei avoteinu – Our God and God of our ancestors. The Midrash says that each of us must have two
foundations to our faith:<span>&#160; </span>one that we inherit and one that we create on our own. </font></p><br />
<ul type="disc" style="margin-top: 0in"><br />
<li><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">We must preserve some things from the past and we must re-create them
and make them our own. If we don’t do that, then our faith will be, as Art Green says, formaldehyde – a dry relic of
the past. </font></li><br />
</ul><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">What do we owe to those who came before us?<span>&#160;
</span><strong><u>We owe them a commitment at least as passionate as theirs. </u></strong></font></font></font></p><br
/>
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial"><strong><u>We do not owe them replication. We do owe them
determination</u></strong>. </font></font></font></p><br />
<p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">I believe we are living in an unprecedented time for the Jewish people.
</font></p><br />
<ul type="disc" style="margin-top: 0in"><br />
<li><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">The Jewish people are not completely loved and secure throughout the
world; </font></li><br />
<li><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">Judaism is not understood or practiced as widely as it should be.
</font></li><br />
<li><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">Iran is a very serious threat to Israel and to all the rest
of us. <span>&#160;</span></font></font></font> </li><br />
</ul><br />
<p><strong><u><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">But we have never been as free, as prosperous, and as
influential as we are right now – here in the United States, in Israel, and throughout the world.
</font></u></strong></p><br />
<ul type="disc" style="margin-top: 0in"><br />
<li><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">What do owe to those who built this Jewish world for us?<span>&#160;
</span>We do not owe them a replication of their world. We owe them hard work to make it more vibrant than it is today.
</font></li><br />
<li><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">What do we owe those who died and those who survived the
Shoah?<span>&#160; </span>We owe them that we will never be that defenseless again, politically or militarily.
</font></li><br />
</ul><br />
<p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">To those who came before us, we owe them <u>passionate life</u>. We owe
them that their work will be carried on; that we will pick up where they left off. </font></p><br />
<p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">We can do both:<span>&#160; </span>we can hang on to and relive the
sacred moments of the past. And then we can move forward into life. </font></p><br />
<ul type="disc" style="margin-top: 0in"><br />
<li><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">This is what we owe to our parents and our heroes. </font></li><br />
<li><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">It is what we owe to children and the future as well. </font></li><br
/>
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        <published>2009-09-24T15:46:36Z</published>
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                Hey everyone- busy week for everyone as we prepare for the big event on Sunday night-- the family Kol Nidre service! I'm
really excited as we have some great content and look forward to making the Yom Kippur evening service into an
interactive learning experience-- that is (and I'm not sure if it should be or not...) fun, yet still respectful and
true to the spirit of the event.<br /><br />Ruach is the word that comes to mind when Judy, the Rabbi, and the Cantor
and I sit down to prepare these alternative services. We want to capture the spirituality and energy that can come from
these events. To me there's nothing more spiritually unpleasant than sitting in a large room full of people who repeat
liturgy without 1) understanding the personal meaning behind the words and melodies that our people have chanted for
hundreds if not thousands of years; and 2) feeling a connection to the event. The liturgy and content of conservative
services is deeply significant and has been to our people (and other faiths) for centuries. <br /><br />The best example
I could give is the Hashkiveinu prayer we chant every Friday night. The words, both in English and Hebrew, are beautiful
and motivational-- yet most of us blindly chant the Hebrew without stopping to appreciate it. Same goes for Modim
Anachnu Lach at the end of the Amidah-- these two prayers, at least to me, are the essence of Shabbat. I'll go into more
detail on these after the High Holidays.<br /><br />Anyhow (FO-CUS, Mr. Rob) back on topic -- we look to capture the
same feeling and explore the deep meaning of the Yom Kippur liturgy and do it in a way that connects to us as 21st
century families.<br /><br />Class today was limited to 2 topics- and they're important: Atonement (and not just saying
&quot;Sorry&quot;); and Hebrew reading including Mem/Mem Sofit and the vowel Chirik (long e sound). If you missed class
this week you can download the homework by clicking on these links: <a
href="http://ot.torahaura.com/Lesson_4a/lesson_4a.html"><font color="#223344">Lesson 4a </font></a>, <a
href="http://ot.torahaura.com/Lesson_4b/lesson_4b.html"><font color="#223344">Lesson 4b </font></a>then printing the
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service! Please attend!; 2) Class Shabbat and 3rd grade Consecration is coming up on 10/2. SAVE THE DATE! We will be
leading part of the service. 
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                <p><font size="3">We are very excited about starting this new feature to our website. The timing of introducing
blogging, coming at the New Year, seems most appropriate as we reflect on the concluding year and look forward to the
promise of what's ahead.<br /></font><font color="#ffaa00" size="3"><strong>L'shanah tovah tikateyvu! A healthy, happy
and prosperous New Year to all.<br /></strong></font><font size="3">Look for blogs from our clergy, from teachers at our
school and from a variety of others. If you have ideas about topics or bloggers, please let us know!<br /></font><font
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            <name>Rabbi Marc S. Sack</name>
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                <h4 class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center; margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:
arial">ROSH HASHANAH I</span></h4><br />
<h4 class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center; margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:
arial"></span><span>5770</span></h4><br />
<h4 align="center"><em><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font
face="Arial">You know the nearer your destination, the more you’re slip sliding
away.</font></font></font></span></em>&#160;</h4><br />
<h5 class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center; margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial"><em>Slip sliding away; slip sliding
away;</em></font></font></font></p><br />
<p>&#160;</p><br />
<p><em><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">God only
knows; God makes his plan; </font></font></font></span></em></p><br />
<p><em><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">The
information’s unavailable to the mortal man. </font></font></font></span></em></p><br />
<p><em><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">We’re
working our jobs; collect our pay. </font></font></font></span></em></p><br />
<p><em><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">Believe
we’re gliding down the highway when in fact we’re slip sliding away. </font></font></font></span></em></p><br />
</h5><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font
color="#000000"><font face="Arial">Which one of us has not felt that way this past year?<span style="mso-spacerun:
yes">&#160; </span>Which one of us has not been touched by loss or insecurity, by sudden illness or other pain, that’s
challenged us and shaken our moorings? </font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">That same song
writer wrote these lyrics some years later: </font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p align="center"><em><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font
face="Arial"><strong>Well, I’m accustomed to a smooth ride</strong> </font></font></font></span></em></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">How many of us
thought we were settled and secure only to find that the road was going to be a lot bumpier than we planned for.
</font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">We believed we
were in control. We believed that if we did our homework and invested well; if we were diligent in our work and produced
good results; if we were careful with our diet and took care of our health, that life would be good; that we could plan
for a future that would go our way. </font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">And then last year
happened – and we found that all of our hard work and planning, our living prudently, could not always protect us.
</font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center; margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><em><span
style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial"><strong>On Rosh Hashanah it
is written and on Yom Kippur it is sealed…</strong> </font></font></font></span></em></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">The fragility of
our lives and our work was made clear to all of us this past year. </font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">This is not the
first time I’ve seen painful economic and personal struggle. </font></font></font></span></p><br />
<ul type="disc" style="margin-top: 0in"><br />
<li class="MsoNormal" style="text-justify: inter-ideograph; text-align: justify; margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l1
level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font
face="Arial">I was a rabbi in <place w:st="on" /><state w:st="on" />Texas</state /></place /> when the bottom fell out
of the real estate market there in the mid-1980s. I’ll never forget the time a woman came to shul on Saturday morning
– she was not a member of the congregation; I had never met her before – and she asked to see me after services. She
told me that her husband was a commercial real estate developer and had lost everything. They were living on money from
her parents. The couple had three children and the husband was thinking of leaving. He was ashamed that he could not
provide for his family.</font></font></font></span> </li><br />
<li class="MsoNormal" style="text-justify: inter-ideograph; text-align: justify; margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l1
level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font
face="Arial">I offered to see the two of them together. Struggling for words, I told her that all marriages went through
dark times; that it was important to let her husband know that she loved him no matter what. I told her that I believed
that, if at all possible, remaining in her marriage was most important for the well-being of their children and,
hopefully, for them. </font></font></font></span></li><br />
<li class="MsoNormal" style="text-justify: inter-ideograph; text-align: justify; margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l1
level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font
face="Arial">I tried to get in touch with the woman after our meeting to see what happened, but she never called me
back.</font></font></font></span> </li><br />
</ul><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-justify: inter-ideograph; text-align: justify; margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span
style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">I have seen before these
difficult times, and the desperation that can come with them. I remember the pain of the personal struggles and choices
that must be made.</font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-justify: inter-ideograph; text-align: justify; margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span
style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"></span></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">The climax of
Un’taneh Toqef, the prayer I quoted before, is these words:</font></font></font></span>&#160;</p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center; margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><em><span
style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial"><strong>But repentance,
prayer and acts of tzedaqah </strong></font></font></font></span></em></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center; margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><em><span
style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial"><strong>Annul the severity
of the decree.</strong></font></font></font></span></em></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center; margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><em><span
style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><strong><font color="#000000" size="3"
face="Arial"></font></strong></span></em></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: center; margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><em><span
style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><strong><font color="#000000" size="3"
face="Arial"></font></strong></span></em></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font
color="#000000"><font face="Arial"></font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font
color="#000000"><font face="Arial">I’ve always wondered:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </span>how do
repentance, prayer, and acts of tzedaqah make the decree – the decree that life will be a roller coaster, the kind of
roller coaster where we won’t be able to see what’s coming around the bend – how do they make the fragility of
life any easier?</font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"></span>&#160;</p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font
color="#000000"><font face="Arial">I understand these words as a contrast with the words that come right before them.
The previous paragraph ends with the words “who shall be made poor and who made rich; who brought low and who
elevated.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </span>And then we have the words, “But repentance, prayer and acts
of tzedaqah annul the severity of the decree.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </span>What’s the connection
between these ideas?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160;&#160; </span>I think it is
this:</font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font color="#000000"
size="3" face="Arial"></font></span></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial"><strong
style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><u><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial">As long as we measure the worth of our
lives by who is rich and who is poor, who is elevated and who is low, then we leave ourselves open to being devastated
by the bad times</span></u></strong><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial">. If we measure the success of our lives
by how much we have; how much of the world we’ve seen; we will be badly shaken by these times. We leave ourselves open
to questioning ourselves and our worth as people.&#160;</span></font></font></font></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"></span></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">But if we use
other standards for evaluating our lives – <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><u>if we measure our lives by
the amount of good we have done in the world, by how much we have made the world better because of our presence –
through acts of personal change and prayer and tzedaqah – then the bottom lines of our portfolios and the personal
sorrows of our lives become just a little bit easier to deal with. </u></strong>We can still say, “I have, and I am,
doing good. I make a difference.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </span></font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">At the end of our
Torah reading for this morning, after Abraham made a treaty with Avimelekh, the Torah tells us that Abraham planted a
tree – the Hebrew word is “eshel”. As I’ve taught before, the rabbis say that this is a metaphor for the fact
that Abraham opened an inn; that “eshel”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160;</span>is an acronym for
“achilah,” “sh’tiyah,” and “linah.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </span>The rabbis teach that
through his “chesed,” his generosity and his hospitality, Abraham brought others to the awareness and acceptance of
God. </font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p align="center"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font
face="Arial">MIDRASHIC TEXT </font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial"><u><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial">Our worth as
people is not measured by how much we have. Our worth is measured by the spirit we bring to the world</span></u><span
style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial">. </span></font></font></font></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">My friend in
<state w:st="on" /><place w:st="on" />Texas</place /></state />, Tank Rubinett, always said to me, “Marc:<span
style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </span>it’s not how much you have, but how much you give that makes a
difference.”</font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font
color="#000000"><font face="Arial">And we all have something to give. Whatever the condition of our spirits and our
pocketbooks, we still have time and generosity and love to give.</font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font color="#000000"
size="3" face="Arial"></font></span></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font
color="#000000"><font face="Arial">Monsignor Higgins once said that if you want to take care of your own troubles, go
take care of someone else’s, and somehow your own will not be so bad. (SEE RABBI
NACHMAN).&#160;</font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font
color="#000000"><font face="Arial">&#160;</font></font></font></span> </p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font
color="#000000"><font face="Arial">Our worth is much bigger than we’ve given ourselves credit for.
</font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">In Hebrew we say,
“Gam zu ya-avor:” “This too shall pass.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </span>What will we do when this
is all over?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </span>How will we live when the Dow is back over 12,000?<span
style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </span>Will we think that the smooth ride is back, that we can glide down the highway
once again?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </span></font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">There is a
Chasidic tale about a rabbi who asks his master to tell him the one true way to serve God. The master answers that there
is no one way to serve God. For one person serves God through fasting and another through eating; one through study and
another through action. Each person must search for and discover his or her particular way and then follow that with all
one’s heart. </font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">In so many ways,
Judaism teaches that each of us has a unique, individual spirit. We each have something that only we and only we can
give to the world. <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><u>If we’re going to measure our worth in any way, it
must be whether we are making our contribution; whether we are expressing the unique gift that each of us has within
us</u></strong>. <span style="mso-tab-count: 1">&#160;&#160;&#160; </span></font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">To those of us who
are hurting, the Torah reading for today teaches that God heard the cry of Ishmael “where he was,”<span
style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </span>“b-asher hu sham.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160;</span>The Midrash
says that <strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><u>God hears the cries of everyone wherever they are:<span
style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </span>whatever place in life they are at. No matter how many or few mitzvoth you’ve
done this year; no matter how many or few times you’ve been in shul this year, God hears the cries of people wherever
they are</u></strong>. </font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">This time of
uncertainty will pass. But when that happens, the measure of our lives will be much more than how much we have. It will
be the extent to which we express the unique gifts that all of bring to the world. It will be the extent to which all of
us bring goodness and God’s name to the world. </font></font></font></span></p><br />
<p><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: arial"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">No matter how
bumpy the road, we all have something special to give. I pray that in bringing that gift to the world, we can bring some
joy back to the world as well.</font></font></font></span></p> 
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            <name>Rob Schwartzberg</name>
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        <published>2009-09-17T15:45:00Z</published>
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                Hey everyone! We've now added Lamed and TWO (yes, two!) new vowels: Cholam (long "o") and Shuruk ("oo" as in "tool"). We
try to have a rule to help us remember some of the tricky letters and vowels.. for example: Bet has a base and a belly
button, Tav has a toe, and so on. Today we learned that "Lamed Looks Like Lightning".<br /><br />The memory trick for
the vowels is a bit difficult to put into words on the blog, but it involves either putting your hands over your head in
the shape of an "O" like a basketball player asking for the ball "I'm O-pen!!" and Shuruk has the dot in the middle..
like the sound you'd make if you were hit in the stomach: "Oo!" Doesn't quite work well in print, but ask your child to
demonstrate.<br /><br />Homework is lesson <a href="http://www.ot.torahaura.com/Lesson_3a/lesson_3a.html"><font
color="#445566">3a</font></a> and <a href="http://www.ot.torahaura.com/Lesson_3b/lesson_3b.html"><font
color="#445566">3b</font></a>, due on Wednesday.<br /><br />We practiced this today by doing a speed reading game. The
kids were given 5-6 minutes to practice a line in our text book, then were given the opportunity to try and read it as
quickly as possible. This exercise helps with quick recognition of phoneme groups. Kids aren't penalized for long times,
but are rewarded for quick times and if they improve on their own performance week over week.<br /><br />We also have 2
teaching assistants with us on Wednesday and Sunday. My son Ian and his 7th grade classmate Hayley Garron are starting
to do one-on-one reading with each student. This will help us to challenge those who are a little ahead of the others,
and will also give some extra attention to those who need the assistance. We hope to have everyone in class get at least
one session per week.. we have a large class, but we will do our best.<br /><br />We also talked a little more about
starting life "new" in the new year... on Wednesday when we come back we'll talk in more detail about Yom Kippur,
forgiveness (both getting and giving), and the difference between starting anew while not totally forgetting about past
mistakes.<br /><br />Shana Tova!!! 
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        <author>
            <name>Rob Schwartzberg</name>
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        <published>2009-09-13T15:44:00Z</published>
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                Hi everyone- we had a very busy day today! We started by reviewing our Hebrew letters and vowels. Shin, bet, and tav
reviews got us ready to learn our next new letter on Wednesday... coming soon: Lamed!<br /><br />We had our first prayer
class in the sanctuary. During that session Ms. Sandler talked about the special blessings for Rosh Hashanah.<br /><br
/>When we got back up to our class, we continued the conversation about the upcoming Days of Awe. Today's focus was on
renewal: If we can start with a clean slate and do the last year all over, what we can do to make the world (or at least
our homes) better in the upcoming year. I really emphasized the positive phrasing-- no "I won't do.." or "I'll stop
doing..." and had them reword their ideas in positive terms "I will do this better".<br /><br />Rosh Hashanah is about
renewal and starting over. After we start fresh at the New Year, we spend the next 10 days working on making amends for
what we did and focus on the "I won't do..". That will be the focus of discussion on Wednesday.<br /><br />Lastly today
we started our Israeli Scavenger Hunt book. This text is a great story about an American boy on his first visit to
Israel. The first chapter had the kids locate Israel on a world map, and then look at the relative size of the country
compared to its neighbors.<br /><br />Remember to have your kids let me know if they attend services! They receive team
points for coming to Shabbat services-- even if they are at another synagogue!<br /><br />See you all on Wednesday!<br
/>Rob 
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            <name>Rob Schwartzberg</name>
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        <published>2009-09-09T15:43:00Z</published>
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                I'm happy to say we learned 2 new letters this week- which brings our running total to 3! We now can read and write
Shin, Bet, and Tav as well as the kamatz and patach vowels.<br /><br />Homework is <a
href="http://www.ot.torahaura.com/Lesson_2a/lesson_2a.html"><font color="#445566">Lesson 2a </font></a>and <a
href="http://www.ot.torahaura.com/Lesson_2b/lesson_2b.html"><font color="#445566">Lesson 2b </font></a>in our workbooks.
<br /><br />We also talked about the importance of proper behavior during our afternoon service. Even though we are at
Hebrew School, the service we conduct is a 'real' minchah service. We fully expect all of the students to act
appropriately- which includes properly handling siddurim (in addition to costing the synagogue about $50 each they
contain sacred text including Torah), treating adults with respect, and not disrupting the service.<br /><br />Please
reinforce this to them. I am trying to get them to understand that they can have fun and be goofy when appropriate, but
that there is an expectation that they are now taking on more 'grown up' responsibilities by participating in a real
service.<br /><br />We also won't get to have a snack until about 5:30. Our service ends at about 5 and it takes some
time to transition to the class, dole out the portions, and say blessings. If this is a problem for your child, please
have them eat <em>before</em> coming to synagogue. As with the sanctuary, no food is allowed in the chapel and we ask
that the students give their full attention to the prayers.<br /><br />Thanks! 
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            <name>Rob Schwartzberg</name>
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        <published>2009-09-02T15:42:00Z</published>
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                Hey everyone! Welcome to the official blog site for Mr. Rob's 3rd grade class at Rodeph Sholom in Tampa. In this space
I'll recap the recent class activities and post links to homework.<br /><br />Last week we learned the Hebrew rules:
1)right to left; and 2) up/down/over. We also talked about the phoneme combinations... all Hebrew sounds can be broken
down into letter/vowel or letter/vowel/letter groupings. We practiced using these rules using English letters...
students were asked to write at least five household objects using these rules.<br /><br />In Torah study we introduced
our book, Explorer's Bible Book 1. In the story of creation we talked about the "it was evening then morning the next
day" and how that relates to how we celebrate holidays starting at sundown on the day before the holiday... and how G-d
called all of his creations "good" after they were made. This is a key concept that we'll explore in more detail in the
next few weeks. We are focusing on how G-d made us all good by default and it's up to us to make decisions that will
either let us do good or evil throughout our lives.<br /><br />In Judaics we carried the 'good' theme forward and talked
a lot about the idea of Study/Charity/Prayer. We want them to understand why study is the most important of the 3 and
how we are commanded to do all three...<br /><br />Today (Wednesday 9/2) we learned our first Hebrew letter, shin. I was
very impressed with how much of the letters the kids remembered from past years... they were able to read some of the
words in our text book!! This is great! I challenged them to finish the whole alef-bet by the end of February.. if they
can accomplish this timeline we'll have a party when we're done.<br /><br />Homework tonight is <a
href="http://www.ot.torahaura.com/Lesson_1a/lesson_1a.html"><font color="#445566">Lesson 1a </font></a>and <a
href="http://www.ot.torahaura.com/Lesson_1b/lesson_1b.html"><font color="#445566">Lesson 1b </font></a>in our workbook.
You can also access the pages online if your child misplaced it or if they weren't in class. I also sent home the
Parent's Guide.. use this as a reference if your Hebrew is a bit rusty <img
src="http://rsholom.org/blog/templates/default/img/emoticons/smile.png" alt=":-)" style="display: inline; vertical-align: bottom;"
class="emoticon" /><br /><br />Have fun, safe, and healthy weekend and see you on Wednesday!! (no Sunday school this
week due to the Labor Day holiday) 
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        <author>
            <name>Rabbi Marc S. Sack</name>
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        <published>2009-07-29T00:54:00Z</published>
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                <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">Leni and I spent part of
our vacation on the outer banks of <state w:st="on" /><place w:st="on" />North Carolina</place /></state />. In the
local newspaper of <place w:st="on" /><placename w:st="on" />Ocracoke</placename /> <placetype w:st="on"
/>Island</placetype /></place />, there were announcements for church services on Sunday. There was no such announcement
for a Shabbat service. In fact, we saw little evidence of Jewish presence at all.</font></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">Services or not, we
observe Shabbat when we’re on vacation. That means we have Shabbat dinner with Kiddush and Motzi and we spend no money
throughout the day.</font></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">So on Friday afternoon we
went grocery shopping, getting food to last us for the day. Our first problem was that there was no kosher wine to be
found over which to say Kiddush. Fortunately, I remembered a text I studied in rabbinical school about how to do Kiddush
without wine. One washes one’s hands before Kiddush, says the entire Kiddush but ends it with the blessing over bread
instead of the blessing over wine. (This law was surely written either for Jews who were travelling or those too poor to
afford the luxury of wine.) Leni and I got a package of small rolls over which to do our combined Kiddush and
Motzi.</font></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">Being that it was vacation
and we were in a small rented apartment, we had neither the tools nor the inclination to do a lot of cooking. We had
found a take-out Thai restaurant with a lot of vegetarian options. So before Shabbat, we called in an order and I picked
it up. Our dinner began with Shalom Aleikhem, moved to Kiddush and Motzi, and then to three dishes of veggie Thai food,
which was pretty good. And it was Shabbat on <place w:st="on" /><city w:st="on" />Ocracoke Island</city />, <state
w:st="on" />NC</state /></place />!</font></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">I think we Jews invented
the idea that religion was portable. God, Torah and the mitzvoth are with us wherever we go. It would have been nice to
be with other Jews for a Shabbat service. But we did not need that in order to be Jewish. We don’t subscribe to the
maxim, “When in <place w:st="on" /><city w:st="on" />Rome</city /></place />, do as the Romans.” For us it’s just
the opposite – and maybe this is a source of anti-Semitism – “When in <place w:st="on" /><city w:st="on"
/>Rome</city /></place />, be Jewish, even if there are no other Jews around.” We take our religion with us and we
insist on practicing it even if no one else is.</font></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">On another point, I
don’t think we slighted Shabbat in any way by having take-out food for dinner. I’ve suggested from the pulpit that
some of our busy families do the same. Better take-out food eaten at home with the whole family than going to a
restaurant where the sense of family-togetherness is harder to achieve. Home-cooked is great, but what’s really
important is the family being together celebrating Shabbat.</font></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">Leni and I spent part of
Shabbat on the beach reading and then we walked through town later in the day. When Shabbat was over, we went out to
dinner.</font></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">Wherever we go, we look
for signs of a Jewish presence. We’ve been to some very interesting Shabbat services. But even when we find none,
Shabbat go with us. They always remind us who we are and what we believe in. </font></p> 
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            <name>Rabbi Marc S. Sack</name>
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        <published>2009-07-20T18:48:00Z</published>
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                <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">The DC Minyan is what might
be called “Conservadox” in style. Men and women sit separately, where seating is divided equally down the middle of
the room, but there is no physical <em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">mechitzah. </em>The pulpit stands in the
middle of the room between the men’s and women’s sections. The <em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">davening
</em>and Torah reading are full – nothing is skipped – and it’s all in Hebrew. They are done equally and
skillfully by the men and women of the congregation. While there were several rabbis in the room, the services were led
entirely by the members. The average age in the room, even including the dozen or so over-50s like me, was 30. There
were two baby namings the Shabbat morning I attended.</font></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">IKAR is a minyan in LA
that is Conservative in style. While DC Minyan used both Orthodox and Conservative siddurim, IKAR used only our Sim
Shalom. Seating was mixed and a few parts of the service were abbreviated, similar to services at Rodeph Sholom. IKAR
was more “rabbi-led” than DC Minyan. IKAR was founded by Rabbi Sharon Brous who is in her mid-30s. Rabbi Brous was
not present the morning I attended, but the service was led by rabbinical students from the American Jewish University
(formerly the <place w:st="on" /><placetype w:st="on" />University</placetype /> of <placename w:st="on"
/>Judaism</placename /></place />). Like the DC Minyan, the room was full of 30-somethings and young children.
</font></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">A year ago, I read a study
on what are called “emergent minyanim,” groups of committed Jews who are not joining conventional congregations but
are forming their own minyanim instead. The members of these minyanim are predominantly young and Jewishly very well
educated. Many went to day school, Jewish summer camp and have spent six months or more in Israel. </font></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">The study highlighted a
few salient characteristics of the minyanim:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </span>they do not own buildings;
they avoid movement labels – they’re not affiliated with any of the major American Jewish religious denominations;
and they put a strong emphasis on social action and community involvement. At IKAR, the main announcement was a protest
rally about <place w:st="on" />Darfur</place /> that the minyan was supporting. </font></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">What the study implied but
did not say explicitly was that the majority of the members of these minyanim are products of the Conservative Movement.
They are, in fact, the “best and brightest” of our movement. They are the most committed and educated young
Conservative Jews; and the study showed that, when asked, they still identified themselves as “Conservative” – but
they are not comfortable with the culture of our congregations. </font></p><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">With what are they
uncomfortable? This is the hardest question to answer but here are some suggestions:</font></p><br />
<ul type="disc" style="margin-top: 0in"><br />
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><font color="#000000"
size="3" face="Arial">This may sound silly, but at the DC Minyan and IKAR, you could count on one hand the number of men
wearing ties. At DC Minyan, most of the women wore skirts or dresses; very few did so at IKAR. </font></li><br />
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><font size="3"><font
face="Arial"><font color="#000000">At IKAR there were about 125 people at the service; at DC Minyan, 200. At both
minyanim, the people sat on the same level with the lectern which was either in the middle or close to the middle of the
room. <em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">There is an informal and intimate feel to the minyanim. They are not in
large rooms with permanent seating and raised pulpits. </em></font></font></font></li><br />
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><font color="#000000"
size="3" face="Arial">Both minyanim had very high degrees of member participation. The members organized the davening
and put out the food for the Kiddush after the service. </font></li><br />
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"><font color="#000000"
size="3" face="Arial">Both minyanim were involved in social action projects of the greater community, whether marching
for <place w:st="on" />Darfur</place /> or working on a Habitat for Humanity project, the members felt an obligation to
do good beyond the Jewish community. </font></li><br />
</ul><br />
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">Here’s what I learn from
my experiences at these minyanim:</font></p><br />
<ol type="1" style="margin-top: 0in"><br />
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .5in"><font color="#000000"
size="3" face="Arial">In order to attract more committed younger families, our congregations must adjust their style so
that we feel less formal. (This is why we’ve brought the lectern down to the floor in our sanctuary.)<span
style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </span>While I believe in dressing respectfully for services, my guess is that it
won’t be long before we adopt a “business casual” style for synagogue. </font></li><br />
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .5in"><font size="3"><font
face="Arial"><font color="#000000">There’s a strong interest among young Jews to be involved in the greater community.
We can see this as another sign of our success:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#160; </span>our children have learned
from all those “mitzvah projects” done for their b’nei mitzvah that they have an obligation to participate in <em
style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">tiqun olam. </em></font></font></font></li><br />
<li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .5in"><font color="#000000"
size="3" face="Arial">Those people who are writing obituaries for the Conservative Movement are wrong. Our
middle-of-the-road, traditional and egalitarian, style is very much alive and well. We are succeeding in inculcating our
children with our values and commitment. In many ways, what they are uncomfortable with in our congregations is a matter
of style. </font></li><br />
</ol><span style="font-family: arial; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "><font color="#000000">I was
encouraged and energized by my experiences at these minyanim. I think we’ve got some work to do, but our basic message
of marrying Jewish traditionalism with modernism works and is being adopted by our children. I think they can lead us
into the future. </font></span> 
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        <link href="http://rsholom.org/blog/index.php?/archives/3-Redemption-of-Captives.html" rel="alternate" title="&quot;Redemption of Captives&quot;" />
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            <name>Rabbi Marc S. Sack</name>
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        <published>2009-07-06T00:50:00Z</published>
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                <p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">I read two weeks ago, at CNN’s online page, that Gilad Shalit, the
Israeli corporal held by Hamas, would be released in a matter of days in a prisoner exchange. I was excited for two
reasons. I was encouraged that there were back-channel negotiations going on with the Palestinians about Shalit and
other difficult issues. I saw this as a small breakthrough.</font></p><br />
<p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">More importantly, I hoped that Shalit, would finally come home.
<em>Pidyon Shivuyim, </em>“redemption of captives,” is an important Jewish value. <em>Pidyon Shivuyim </em>grew out
of the ancient – and not so ancient – practice of taking captives and selling them as slaves during times of war. We
Jews have never abandoned our brethren in need and we’ve paid large sums to bribe officials in order to rescue fellow
Jews. This value has been the basis for the lopsided exchanges that have taken place in the past between <country-region
w:st="on" /><place w:st="on" />Israel</place /></country-region /> and her enemies.</font></p><br />
<p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">Unfortunately, those “days” came and went, and I read nothing more
about Gilad Shalit. When I asked my “source” in the Israeli government, he said that one should ignore these
reports; they pop up all the time. He had heard nothing about any prisoner exchange.</font></p><br />
<p><font color="#000000" size="3" face="Arial">We don’t give up on fellow Jews who are held captive. Gilad Shalit
will come home, hopefully alive. Until then, we must hope that some back-channel discussions are taking place and, when
his release finally happens, it will be the first step on the road to a greater peace.</font></p> 
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        <link href="http://rsholom.org/blog/index.php?/archives/2-Iran-and-the-Jews.html" rel="alternate" title="Iran and the Jews" />
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            <name>Rabbi Marc S. Sack</name>
                    </author>
    
        <published>2009-06-29T00:32:00Z</published>
        <updated>2009-09-23T00:59:49Z</updated>
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                <p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">The prayers of the evening and morning services are a
movement through a range of ways to feel God’s presence in our lives.<span>&#160; </span>The liturgy begins praising
God for His acts of creation, specifically the sun, moon and stars. <span>&#160;</span>The change from light to darkness
and darkness to light are the most immediate manifestations of God’s daily work of creation.<span>&#160; </span>(This
prayer is called “Orot,” meaning “lights” or “luminaries.”)<span>&#160; </span>Then the service moves to
praise God for giving us Torah and mitzvoth, which are understood as expressions of God’s love for the Jewish
people:<span>&#160; </span>as a parent gives moral instruction to a child, so too God shows His love for us by giving us
moral instruction.<span>&#160; </span>(This prayer is called “Ahavah,” meaning “love,” though it’s often
referred to as “revelation,” God’s teaching His will to the Jewish people.)<span>&#160; </span>Next comes the
Sh’ma.</font></font></font></p><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">After Sh’ma is “G’ulah,” meaning “redemption”
– a prayer that uses the liberation from <country-region w:st="on" /><place w:st="on" />Egypt</place
/></country-region /> as the paradigm of God’s acts of real, political redemption.<span>&#160; </span>God defeats the
forces of tyranny to bring freedom to His people.<span>&#160; </span>This is traditional Jewish theology:<span>&#160;
</span>However long He may tarry, God is active in history, bringing destruction to the arrogant and liberation to the
oppressed.</font></font></font></p><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">Here is the movement of our worship.<span>&#160; </span>We
see God’s presence in three broad areas of life:<span>&#160; </span>the natural order; the moral order; and the
political order.</font></font></font></p><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">Whenever I teach about the service, when I come to the
“G’ulah” prayer, I use the fall of the Berlin Wall, the end of apartheid, and peace in <country-region w:st="on"
/><place w:st="on" />Northern Ireland</place /></country-region /> as contemporary examples of God’s redemptive role
in history.<span>&#160; </span>I mention my hope for peace between <country-region w:st="on" /><place w:st="on"
/>Israel</place /></country-region /> and her neighbors as an experience of redemption that would be little short of the
messianic coming.</font></font></font></p><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">For the last week and a half, I was very hopeful that we
might be witnessing another moment of God’s redemptive power in history.<span>&#160; </span>I prayed that the regime
of the mullahs might actually fall in Iran; that the people had finally had enough of their oppressive and destructive
rule and might overwhelm the Revolutionary Guard with their spirit of hope.<span>&#160; </span>We have seen these
moments before in recent history – in <country-region w:st="on" />Germany</country-region />, <country-region
w:st="on" />Poland</country-region /> and the <place w:st="on" /><placename w:st="on" />Czech</placename /> <placetype
w:st="on" />Republic</placetype /></place />.<span>&#160; </span>We had high hopes for <country-region w:st="on"
/>China</country-region /> twenty years ago during the <place w:st="on" />Tiananmen Square</place />
movement.</font></font></font></p><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">But today, while some protesters continue to march quietly
in the streets of <place w:st="on" /><city w:st="on" />Tehran</city /></place />, their numbers are very diminished, and
I fear this mass crying-out for free and open elections and for change will be squelched by an overpowering
military.<span>&#160; </span>God’s redemptive power has not yet reached the people of <country-region w:st="on"
/><place w:st="on" />Iran</place /></country-region />.<span>&#160; </span>They, and all their neighbors,
<country-region w:st="on" /><place w:st="on" />Israel</place /></country-region /> included, are still very much in
harm’s way as the government will surely try to deflect attention away from its own oppressive policies and search for
a scapegoat.</font></font></font></p><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">I don’t know if a government led by Mir Hosein Mousavi
would have been any less threatening to <country-region w:st="on" /><place w:st="on" />Israel</place /></country-region
/> than one led by Mahmoud Ahmadinejad.<span>&#160; </span>But, ironically and tragically, I believe that the current
situation in <country-region w:st="on" />Iran</country-region /> is good for <country-region w:st="on" /><place
w:st="on" />Israel</place /></country-region />.<span>&#160; </span>The whole world can see the current regime in
<country-region w:st="on" /><place w:st="on" />Iran</place /></country-region /> for what it really is – a bunch of
tyrannical thugs who will oppress their own people just as quickly as they will threaten to annihilate
others.<span>&#160; </span>Only the blind can now say, “We don’t have to take seriously the belligerence of
<country-region w:st="on" /><place w:st="on" />Iran</place /></country-region />.”</font></font></font></p><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">What the <country-region w:st="on" />U.S.</country-region />
or <country-region w:st="on" /><place w:st="on" />Israel</place /></country-region /> should do now?<span>&#160;
</span>About that I make no policy prescriptions.<span>&#160; </span>Though a rabbi once said that one of the Jewish
lessons from the Holocaust is that when someone says they’re going to destroy you, you must take them
seriously.<span>&#160; </span>What “taking them seriously” specifically means in this case, I cannot
say.</font></font></font></p><br />
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Arial">As with many pundits, I remain hopeful though not optimistic
that God’s powers of redemption will yet be seen in <country-region w:st="on" /><place w:st="on" />Iran</place
/></country-region />, <em>bimheirah b’yameinu, </em>speedily and in our time.<span>&#160; </span>Until that happens,
Iran’s government has shown itself as dedicated to its own power and willing to use any means to keep it.<span>&#160;
</span>No one can say to <country-region w:st="on" /><place w:st="on" />Israel</place /></country-region /> that this
threat is not real.</font></font></font></p> 
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